Motherhood
Though a woman should be able to expand her talents and “join the competitive world” if she desires, her primary role, according to Schlafly, should be that of wife and mother, of homemaker rather than career woman. Her stance is summarized by Susan E. Marshall in an article on anti-feminists, who states, “Females are uniquely suited for their domestic duties of home maintenance and child care, and conversely the domination of the public sphere by males is justified by their inherently superior aggressive, analytical, and logical abilities”.
Schlafly also believes that motherhood is crucial to the well being of society; she states, “The career of motherhood is not recorded or compensated in cash wages in government statistics, but that doesn’t make it any less valuable"; in fact, just the opposite is true: “ is the most socially useful role of all”. Schlafly’s view contrasts directly with what she claims is the pro-ERA feminist perspective that caring for children and a husband is demeaning, and that women should not have to be directly responsible for their children if they desire to instead pursue a career. Instead, “the dependent wife and mother who cares for her own children…performs the most socially necessary role in our society. The future of America depends on our next generation being morally, psychologically, intellectually, and physically strong”.
Feminists have criticized Schlafly for this stance, claiming that her “‘pro-life’ and ‘pro-family’ ideology represent the urge to restore the values of motherhood as they haven’t been propagated since the late eighteenth century”. Schlafly, however, stands firm that woman’s main role should be that of a mother, even in this modern century; she states, “Marriage and motherhood have their trials and tribulations, but what lifestyle doesn’t?...The flight from home is a flight from self, from responsibility, from the nature of woman, in pursuit of false hopes and fading fantasies”.
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Famous quotes containing the word motherhood:
“The only thing that seems eternal and natural in motherhood is ambivalence.”
—Jane Lazarre (20th century)
“In a world where women work three times as hard for half as much, our achievement has been denigrated, both marriage and divorce have turned against us, our motherhood has been used as an obstacle to our success, our passion as a trap, our empathy for others as an excuse to underpay us.”
—Erica Jong (20th century)
“The central paradox of motherhood is that while our children become the absolute center of our lives, they must also push us back out in the world.... But motherhood that can narrow our lives can also broaden them. It can make us focus intensely on the moment and invest heavily in the future.”
—Ellen Goodman (20th century)