A father figure is usually an older man, normally one with power, authority, or strength, with whom one can identify with on a deeply psychological level and who generates emotions generally felt towards one's father. Despite the literal term "father", a father figure is not limited to the biological parent of a person, especially a child. Studies have shown that a lack of a father figure in a child's life can have severe negative psychological impacts upon a child's personality and psychology. Many infamous serial killers such as Jeffrey Dahmer and John Wayne Gacy have backgrounds of extreme abuse, or simply no recognition, during their childhood from their fathers. Positive father figures have a significant role in a child's development. Under the circumstances of child abuse and neglect, it is not uncommon for a child to seek out a parental figure as a substitute/proxy for the deficit of love and care at home. These "proxies" in children's cases are used to fulfill the need and want of a parent who can protect them from harm, which is usually driven by an unconscious need for safety and a defective Oedipus complex. Unfortunately, many sexual assault cases have been linked to this kind of behavior, which can lead to fatal obsession and possessiveness. Several studies have suggested that positive father figures, whether biological fathers or others, are generally associated with healthy child development.
Famous quotes containing the words father and/or figure:
“It is my feeling that Time ripens all things; with Time all things are revealed; Time is the father of truth.”
—François Rabelais (14941553)
“The wisest thing a parent can do is to let preschool children figure out themselves how to draw the human figure, or solve a whole range of problems, from overcoming Saturday-morning boredom to dealing with a neighborhood bully. But even while standing on the sidelines, parents can frequently offer support in helping children discover what they want to accomplish.”
—John F. Clabby (20th century)