History
The origin of the unity candle is unclear. Some writers have suggested that in all likelihood, it is at least 30–40 years old. Others say there may be some evidence to suggest it goes back to at least the 1930s if not earlier. Alan and Kathy Chattaway claim that they created the first version of this ceremony for their own wedding, in 1969, in response to the officiant's challenge to be creative.
It is sometimes performed in Christian, interfaith weddings. In a Christian ceremony, the two lighted candles represent the bride and groom. These are two separate and individual hearts aflame. As the couple takes both candles and light a third candle together with their own individual candles, the two flames then burn as one. At this time, the two families become one family and the two lights become one light. Here, the minister will exclaim with great hope and enthusiasm "Let this light shine for all the world to see!" Examiner.com
While the use of unity candles has become widespread, it is prohibited in some churches. It is not part of the Catholic wedding ceremony, and many parishes do not allow its inclusion in the ceremony. While the US Conference of Catholic Bishops has not explicitly prohibited the use of the unity candle in the marriage rite, neither has it encouraged the practice. The Conference has noted that the policies of most dioceses do not prohibit this custom but many suggest that it be done at the reception since the Rite of Marriage already has abundant symbols of unity. The analysis of the Bishops regarding unity candles concludes by indicating that if the unity candle is permitted, the couple should light their individual candles from the paschal candle, the individual candles should not be extinguished and the unity candle should not be placed on the altar.
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