Dutch Customs and Etiquette - Body Language

Body Language

• Compared to most cultures, the Dutch are reserved in public and do not often touch each other or display anger or extreme exuberance.
• The Dutch expect eye contact while speaking with someone. Looking away or staring at the ground is considered impolite and may be perceived as disinterest or lying.
• The Dutch tend to be reserved in using hand gestures. However, having your hands in pockets or arms crossed might be interpreted as a sign of disinterest.
• The crazy sign is made by tapping the centre of your forehead with your index finger. This gesture is considered rude.
  • NB the sign indicating someone is smart or intelligent is made by tapping the area around temporal bone (just above the ear) with the index finger.
  • NB the crazy sign can also be made by twisting your index finger around the temporal bone. However, there is a slight distinction: This particular gesture indicates insanity, whereas tapping the forehead usually indicates stupidity.
• Winking at strangers will generally be perceived as a sexual advance and is unlikely to be appreciated.
• Using the middle finger for pointing something out (like on a map) is not considered rude, but it does draw attention.
• When yawning, coughing or sneezing, the mouth should be covered with a flat hand or fist.